tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7684927768388749969.post5670240724670419164..comments2023-11-03T11:26:05.875-04:00Comments on My Journey To Mindfulness: TraditionsOne Woman's Journey - a journal being written from Woodhaven - her cottage in the woods.http://www.blogger.com/profile/12548226150115102345noreply@blogger.comBlogger13125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7684927768388749969.post-90469393059602241732011-11-16T22:12:21.102-05:002011-11-16T22:12:21.102-05:00This truly touched me, for I have the same emotion...This truly touched me, for I have the same emotions: we're older now, the children have their own families, the grandchildren no longer come, but it's o.k. Thank you for this post!lil red henhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15494641068959278096noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7684927768388749969.post-68849702058457215062011-11-12T20:19:00.449-05:002011-11-12T20:19:00.449-05:00I am sorry your were so blue on my birthday. Wish ...I am sorry your were so blue on my birthday. Wish you had thought of me and smiled! Love BethAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7684927768388749969.post-79466231774768740862011-11-06T08:51:25.054-05:002011-11-06T08:51:25.054-05:00Millie, it is always meaningful to me when you com...Millie, it is always meaningful to me when you comment. When I started sharing a few years ago you were one of the first that I read.<br />Enjoy that time in Florida...One Woman's Journey - a journal being written from Woodhaven - her cottage in the woods.https://www.blogger.com/profile/12548226150115102345noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7684927768388749969.post-225367163839801302011-11-05T23:13:54.214-04:002011-11-05T23:13:54.214-04:00Again your thoughts are my thoughts.
Where once t...Again your thoughts are my thoughts.<br /><br />Where once there were large family gatherings, no more - they are all gone. same goes for friends, especially lately. <br /><br />I've been going to funerals and condolence calls and visits to the sick, I've lost track now for how many in recent weeks.<br /><br />Tomorrow another funeral.<br /><br />That's the way life is, changes and losses but to many one after another.<br /><br />As we age that's the way it is. As Betty Davis said, "old age is not for sissies."Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18111803920796076415noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7684927768388749969.post-67117384427256347332011-11-05T06:41:33.880-04:002011-11-05T06:41:33.880-04:00Ellen, so sorry about your mom and dad, my mother ...Ellen, so sorry about your mom and dad, my mother passed away 12 years ago. Everyone else before that. You are fine and so pleased we met...One Woman's Journey - a journal being written from Woodhaven - her cottage in the woods.https://www.blogger.com/profile/12548226150115102345noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7684927768388749969.post-14903074514375258212011-11-04T23:06:03.736-04:002011-11-04T23:06:03.736-04:00I relate to so much of what you are saying. I, too...I relate to so much of what you are saying. I, too, feel torn between being alone and being with my small family. There are disappointments and fallen expectations. My parents will likely be gone within the year. So, it will be interesting to see what I create for myself. One daughter lives on the West coast. The other lives nearby. And, while we have contact, do family dinners, I still find there is something missing. I have decided I must fill in that gap. <br /><br />Give yourself huge hugs and know that you are not alone in your struggles.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7684927768388749969.post-45326695518220822822011-11-04T09:50:49.056-04:002011-11-04T09:50:49.056-04:00Ernestine,
How do I say what I want to say?
The...Ernestine,<br /><br />How do I say what I want to say? <br /><br />These words of yours -- the loss of loved ones and large family gatherings -- oh, I know them too well. My family was once busting-at the-seams large -- and now what's left of that older generation is just a remnant of what once was. <br /><br />So much has changed since I came home five years ago. Not only with family but in the ways we stay connected. If we were shouting neighbors, I can think of little better than dropping by your place for a cup of daily tea and fresh baked goods (if sitting on the counter) and fine conversation. You know, 'the what are you reading now' sort of questions -- the sharing of recipes -- current thoughts and hopes and questions about life.<br /><br />But then,I do drop by most everyday -- with the computer in my lap and my coffee cup beside me, I'm checking in on you right now. Some days get missed and I catch up on your life by reading two posts. <br /><br />Blogs (and Facebook, for some) are good ways to stay connected, but not as sweet as those personal visit of old. I wonder if my Granny felt the same about the telephone? The technology that affords easier connections becomes bittersweet, doesn't it? Or maybe like Nutra-Sweet instead of sugar?<br /><br />JanellAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7684927768388749969.post-5279010227422037312011-11-04T08:56:25.182-04:002011-11-04T08:56:25.182-04:00:( so sorry - all this time I thought one of your ...:( so sorry - all this time I thought one of your sons and Jamie's family lived close enough for you to drive over for easy day visits. I didn't realize the distance was such that you felt somewhat isolated.<br /><br />I understand distance - I am 3,000 miles from family and close friends. As you know I miss my mother terribly - she will have died 3 years ago in Feb. I miss my sister and her family in GA and my closest friends who have been in my life for decades and with whom so many holidays were shared. (We relocated 8.5 years ago.) My sister is phobic about flying so will not venture anywhere she cannot drive. Most years we go to GA during some part of the season, but occasionally something prevents that. Now I focus on making new memories, having new adventures. I recently checked out a resort about 2 hours away which will be a great getaway for 2-3 days at times when we might not want to make a long roadtrip or fly.<br /><br />Hugssss.Skyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02523247895437700129noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7684927768388749969.post-62152624366900816812011-11-03T17:42:02.512-04:002011-11-03T17:42:02.512-04:00Tabor, thank you. You always put a smile on my fa...Tabor, thank you. You always put a smile on my face. A rainy and gloomy day :) Baby that ankle..One Woman's Journey - a journal being written from Woodhaven - her cottage in the woods.https://www.blogger.com/profile/12548226150115102345noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7684927768388749969.post-76618592634284404332011-11-03T17:03:29.505-04:002011-11-03T17:03:29.505-04:00This season always bring memories and great expect...This season always bring memories and great expectations that are impossible to recreate. I also am not crazy about leaving my house even if it means a trip to the city to visit grandchildren! I usually am happy that I did, but I feel exactly like you. I live far away from my family so the big get togethers were infrequent.Taborhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15257045780724471840noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7684927768388749969.post-9690992835099996312011-11-03T10:21:19.357-04:002011-11-03T10:21:19.357-04:00It is a tough time of year for a lot of us.It is a tough time of year for a lot of us.Judyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03399435237919718544noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7684927768388749969.post-1020209659221706062011-11-03T06:53:24.598-04:002011-11-03T06:53:24.598-04:00Oh my - where did this sad entry
come from.
I gues...Oh my - where did this sad entry<br />come from.<br />I guess my heart.<br />A busy day<br />that does not need to start with my tears.<br />FL - thank you for visiting...One Woman's Journey - a journal being written from Woodhaven - her cottage in the woods.https://www.blogger.com/profile/12548226150115102345noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7684927768388749969.post-62890755345180520252011-11-03T06:49:25.178-04:002011-11-03T06:49:25.178-04:00I think some time or other we all have to make our...I think some time or other we all have to make our own traditions. For DH and myself, it started as newlyweds. My dysfunctional family had none. DH's family didn't really have any either. We lived in Spain the first three years of our life together while DH was in the US Navy, and we call it a blessing. We love being together even now after all these years. Both families all live away from us, and do their own things. That is fine with us. Most holiday gatherings had some kind of 'drama' and we don't miss that one bit. We have a few nice memories of laughter and good food, but the uncomfortableness of those holidays outweighs those. We have our own quiet holidays and that suits us just fine.<br /><br />Enjoy your holidays of solitude if that's where you feel most comfortable. Bless your heart.<br /><br />Love and hugs ~ FlowerLadyFlowerLady Lorrainehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17678852154334714784noreply@blogger.com